when it comes to women? It's no secret that certain
archetypal males have been proven over and over to be
irresistible to women — and it's not simply because of their
good looks or a well-defined six pack.
The truth is that women tend to be attracted to certain
personality traits and so, naturally, they flock to the men who
possess them.
Below are seven of these "ideal types" of men that women are
drawn to, and an explanation as to why these men are so
appealing. But don't freak out or permanently alter your
personality if you don't fit into any of these categories exactly
— women will see right through that.
Ideally, you should exude some traits from each of these
different categories; in fact, you probably already do. With a
quick perusal of the list below, you should be in much better
shape to understand what women are looking for, and most
importantly, to make sure that you fit the bill.
1. The Romantic Guy
He believes in classic romance. He is constantly bringing her
flowers and chocolate and lighting candles during dinner. He
calls her often to let her know he is thinking about her and
looks into her eyes and tells her how he feels.
Why he is so irresistible: A woman loves to feel appreciated,
and the romantic guy makes this happen. He uses romantic
gestures to show her he is thinking about her. As an added
bonus, she feels free to reciprocate and act on her own
romantic tendencies.
2. The Confident Guy
He is totally secure and sure of himself. He is assertive in
public and gives off an aura of power and control (within
reason of course, as the "cocky guy" is not on this list). In a
relationship, he doesn't get jealous of other men; he doesn't
feel threatened by his girlfriend's male friends or co-workers.
Why he is so irresistible: Women are attracted to
confident men. Consider this: If you think you are great, she
will probably be influenced to think the same. The confident
man doesn't seek approval from women, and this makes them
want him even more.
3. The Artistic Guy
The artistic guy is spontaneous and lives for the moment.
Often, he will use his creativity to woo her, such as with a song
he has written about her or a painting he has made for her.
Why he is so irresistible: Every woman wants to feel unique
and special. There is no better way to make her feel this way
than to use her as your muse or your source of inspiration.
She is intrigued by the artistic guy's creative mind and
especially by the way he incorporates her into his art.
Charismatic, rebellious, smart, and considerate men all get the girl
4. The Foreign Guy
He comes from a faraway exotic country; he might have a
cute accent or a unique way of seeing the world. His social
customs and everyday behaviour can be a little quirky, but he
always manages to come off as uniquely charming. Note that
you don't have to actually be foreign to fit into this category. If
you are well-travelled or speak many languages, you might
be able to pull off the charm as well as any sweet-talking
foreigner.
Why he is so irresistible: Charisma, charisma and charisma.
There's not much more I can say about this one; it's just that
mysterious je ne sais quoi that is so alluring. Women often
choose this kind of guy if they are curious about the world,
but most of the appeal comes down to a fascination with
dating someone from another culture
.
5. The Free Spirit Guy (aka
the Bad Boy)
The free spirit guy goes where the wind takes him — and the
wind usually takes him on some kind of wacky adventure. He
might ride a motorcycle, or he might skip work to take her on
a last-minute road trip, but this guy doesn't worry too much
about the consequences; he just sees where his own devices
take him.
Why he is so irresistible: Every woman wants a bit of a rebel
(within reason, of course). She loves his carefree attitude and
hopes that it will rub off on her too. The bad boy spirit adds an
element of youthfulness to the relationship and she loves to
try taming him — although she knows she'll never actually
succeed.
6. The Intelligent/Witty Guy
He instigates conversations that are intellectually stimulating
and listens to what she has to say in response. He makes her
laugh with his clever sense of humour and could make a
conversation about Gordon Brown seem interesting. He can
shoot the breeze with her for hours and it will never get
boring.
Why he is so irresistible: As time goes on, your hairline may
recede and your buff body may soften, but if you can keep
her interested, you've won half the battle. An intellectual
connection is a big part of what sustains a relationship and if
you can show her that you've got that, she'll be hooked pretty
quickly.
7. The Considerate Guy
He holds open her car door and pulls out her chair. He foots
the bill for dinner and makes sure to offer her dessert. He
always asks her out with reasonable notice and picks her up at
her door. He is generally sensitive to how she is feeling and
when she is ready to go home.
Why he is so irresistible: Surprised? You probably think that
nice, considerate guys never get the woman, but consider this:
Once a woman has gone through her share of the bad guy, the
rude guy and the not-calling-her-back guy, she will likely re-
evaluate her priorities. It takes a bit of maturity on her part to
realise this, but eventually most girls come around and realise
that they want a guy who will treat them well in the long
run.
a word of caution
Don't take any of these character types to the extreme or try
to be someone you're not — it will be obvious.
The key to success here is to keep in mind why women like the
character traits outlined above and what kind of gestures they
appreciate. Then, mix them up and see which of these traits
and gestures you are most comfortable with. With just a little
bit of effort, you'll be able to find more than a few irresistible
qualities within yourself — and accordingly, she'll be easily
wooed by your newfound individuality.
Now isn't that worth your time?
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